The Feminization of the Icelandic State

On February 28, 2021 a fisherman is preparing the catch to be exported to Europe and the U.S. in the port of Grindavik on the Reykjanes peninsula, Iceland, some 50 kilometres west of the capital Reykjavik.

HALLDOR KOLBEINS / AFP

How sex equality became imbalance in “the world’s most equal country.”

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For more than half a century, Iceland has pursued one of the democratic world’s most ambitious social experiments. 

Its stated objective was clear: dismantle male dominance. By every conventional measure, it succeeded. Iceland is famous for being the world’s “most equal country,” proudly topping international rankings for sex equality. Women occupy the presidency, the prime minister’s office, cabinet ministries, Iceland’s national state church, universities, schools, municipalities, police, social services, newsrooms and much of the country’s ever expanding public bureaucracy. 

International delegations arrive eager to discover the secret of Iceland’s success. Politicians from abroad praise the “Icelandic model.” International organizations celebrate it. Iceland has become the country that much of the Western world is encouraged to emulate.

And yet, nobody asks the question that every successful social experiment eventually deserves.

What happens when a society spends decades correcting one imbalance, only to create another that has become so politically sensitive that almost no one dares acknowledge or question it? 

This article is not an argument against women holding positions of authority and power. Nor is it an argument for returning to some mythical past in which men dominated public life. It’s about something both simpler and more unsettling.

It is an examination of whether Iceland’s public institutions have become so overwhelmingly female—and increasingly shaped by a particular feminist worldview—that they now exhibit their own predictable blind spots. It is an attempt to ask whether Iceland has quietly replaced one unquestioned orthodoxy with another. And the answer is: it has.

The new elite

For decades, Icelandic feminists and the country’s progressive politicians have lambasted male privilege. 

But the privilege we rarely do discuss is institutional privilege: the ability to shape public policy, educational priorities, public spending, acceptable language, and social norms from inside organizations that increasingly are not only ideologically exactly the same but consist largely only of women. 

This is not a conspiracy but something far more ordinary. People hire people who think like themselves. Universities hire students who later hire graduates from the same disciplines. Government agencies cooperate with publicly funded organizations staffed by people who share the same ideologies, and over time an institutional culture emerges. Not necessarily because anyone planned it, but that is simply what institutions do. 

Institutional cultures do not remain confined to ministries, universities, or government agencies. Over time they shape everyday expectations, relationships, and even ordinary conversation.

Men silenced

One consequence rarely discussed is the effect this cultural shift has had on Icelandic men. I do not pretend to speak for all of them. Icelandic men are as diverse as any other group. But over many years I have observed something that is difficult to ignore: a quiet combination of fear, frustration, and what I can only describe as impotent rage.

Not rage expressed through confidence or confrontation but the frustration of people who increasingly feel that speaking honestly carries risks. They worry about saying the wrong thing, asking the wrong question, or expressing an unfashionable opinion. Most simply adapt. They become silent.

A small personal experience illustrates the point. An American male friend of my 24 year old daughter commented about her mother (in the company of yours truly), “your mom is such a badass bitch!” It was unmistakably intended as a compliment, and I received it exactly that way. When I later mentioned the exchange to an Icelandic male friend my age, his reaction surprised me. “Oh my God,” he said. “I’d never dare say the word ‘bitch’ to an Icelandic woman” and adding somewhat bitterly, I thought, “but then, I’m a pussy-whipped Icelandic man.” 

The contrast was revealing. One young man spoke naturally, assuming good faith and shared humor. Another immediately thought in terms of potential harmful consequences. This anecdote illustrates something I have encountered often enough to believe it reflects a broader Icelandic cultural mood. Many people, especially men, appear cautious about ordinary social interactions, because they fear that words will be interpreted in the least charitable way possible.

Healthy democracies require more than legal freedom of speech. They also depend upon social confidence—the confidence that citizens can disagree, joke, question, and occasionally misspeak without assuming the worst of one another. When that confidence begins to erode, public life becomes poorer, not because people have less to say, but because fewer are willing to say it.

The female state

Visitors to Iceland love the scenery, but they rarely see the bureaucracy, which may be the country’s most remarkable creation. Over several decades, Iceland has built an extraordinarily large public sector for a nation of fewer than 400,000 people. 

Large public sectors inevitably attract certain professions: education, human resources, public administration, social work, regulation, “equality/equity” offices, child protection, NGO sector, public advocacy, to name a few. Across much of the Western world—and especially in Iceland—these professions are predominantly female. In most of these institutions women do not merely constitute a majority, they constitute an overwhelming majority. 

For generations Iceland worried about the concentration of male power. Today an equally interesting question receives almost no attention: What happens when the state itself increasingly reflects occupations, institutions and professions in which there is an overwhelming concentration of female power? 

The question is not whether women are capable of governing—of course they are. The question is whether a democracy benefits when so many of its public institutions draw leadership from uniform professional and cultural backgrounds. The statistics show that not only is the public sector female-dominated, but that women are far more likely than men to be in public employment.

Women constitute approximately 62% of employees in the Icelandic central government and about 70% of employees working for municipalities. 43% of all employed women in Iceland work in the public sector, compared with only 15% of employed men. In Reykjavík, Iceland’s largest municipality, women make up 72.4% of the workforce. In numerous Icelandic public agencies female representation approaches total dominance. 

In Reykjavík’s public schools, 36 of the 42 principals are women, six are men; of the 39 assistant principals, 35 are women, four are men. 

In Icelandic ministry after ministry, women constitute overwhelming majorities of professional staff. The Department of Justice staff consists of 52 women and 23 men, its Office of Civic Rights is staffed by seven women and one man; ironically the same numbers apply to its Equality Office. The Ministry of Children and Education has 68 employees, fifty are women, 18 are men. Of the Ministry of Health’s 78 employees, 56 are women, 22 are men. Not a single man works in its Office of Health Services or the Office of the Ministry’s Director. 

Who pays for the Icelandic Female State?

One important question to ask is where are all the men if not in the public sector? Well, they pay the bills of the female state. Approximately 85% of employed men in Iceland work in the private sector, compared with 57% of employed women (in Iceland, sex-balance requirements apply to the boards of larger companies; in some family businesses, formal board membership may not reflect day-to-day management or operational responsibility). 

Most of Iceland’s largest export industries—fisheries, seafood processing (vessels, leadership), construction, energy, aluminum production, heavy transport, shipping, engineering—rely on predominantly male workforces. 

This does not mean public-sector workers don’t contribute economically—they provide education, healthcare, policing, administration , infrastructure, and other services that support the economy. But it does mean that a much larger share of men work in businesses that sell goods and services in competitive markets. Iceland’s labor market remains highly sex-segregated. Men continue to dominate physically demanding and export-oriented industries, while women are heavily concentrated in tax-funded public institutions and care professions–often cushy and comfortable jobs with plum benefits. 

The taboo of questioning the Icelandic Female State 

Governments like to imagine themselves as neutral machines. Of course, they are nothing of the sort. Every institution, every bureaucracy develops its own habits and instincts. Every profession acquires its own moral vocabulary. Social workers begin seeing “vulnerabilities.” Teachers begin seeing educational “solutions.” HR managers see “prejudices.” 

None of this is surprising. Yet, for some reason, many people become uncomfortable when the same reasoning is applied to institutions. In modern democracies, we happily discuss diversity of race, ethnicity, sexuality, religion, and language, but we are strangely uncomfortable discussing diversity of institutional psychology.

If the overwhelming majority of people working inside major public institutions not only share similar educational backgrounds, similar professional experiences and ideological assumptions, but are also of the same sex, we cannot expect those institutions to remain intellectually diverse. 

But speaking about this is taboo in Iceland. Which is odd because few would object to the suggestion that an institution composed almost entirely of men might have cultural blind spots. Now, reverse the sexes. Suddenly, even asking the question not only becomes controversial, it is considered misogynistic and hateful. 

And yet, it is hard to contest that the original aspiration of liberal democracy was never female dominance, nor was it male dominance. It was balance—checks and balances, competing viewpoints, mutual correction, and the recognition that every group, every profession and every institution possesses strengths as well as weaknesses. The purpose of pluralism is not to discover perfect people but to prevent any one perspective from becoming so dominant that it mistakes itself for common sense. 

That is why diversity of thought matters far more than diversity slogans. Without it, every institution eventually becomes an echo chamber.

Conclusion

Iceland spent decades trying to eliminate male domination from public life. It succeeded, but instead of creating balance, it created a different kind of imbalance—if not injustice—that few people are willing to acknowledge.

Perhaps what Iceland now has to contribute to the world is a warning: every successful movement eventually risks becoming what it once opposed. Every revolution sooner or later becomes an establishment, and every establishment in the end develops blind spots.

The health of a democracy depends not on who occupies positions of influence, but on whether citizens remain free—and intellectually curious enough—to question every concentration of power, including those they have been taught to celebrate.

This questioning is succumbing to self-censorship in Iceland, as many conclude that remaining silent is safer than speaking honestly. But when we stop asking difficult questions about power, today’s equality may become tomorrow’s injustice.


All infographics were created by the author with the help of AI.

Íris Erlingsdóttir is a journalist, editor, and former TV reporter for Channel 2 in Iceland. She divides her time between her primary residence in Minnesota, USA, and Reykjavík, Iceland.

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